I’m trying something new and I like it! I think it could possibly be a true game changer in my life. It’s simply asking myself, “What’s the best case scenario?” I’ve been using it in all types of situations and so far it’s made it easier for me to set intentions, stay motivated, and allow myself to receive what I’m dreaming about.

Up to now, I’ve honed skills and become truly talented at getting in my own way. I come up with things I’d love to be doing long-term and then immediately generate all kinds of reasons why they may not actually work in my life. It’s been a successful way to ensure that I don’t move forward toward some of my more powerful bucket list items and not-so-deep-down desires.

This July, as with every July for the past 20 years or so, is delightful for me, as I enjoy my annual month off of my school administrator job. This month is typically filled with some travel, organizational projects, life coaching, dates with friends & family, walking, reading, swimming, ice cream, writing, and a little bit of work (because life doesn’t actually stop.) The most insightful parts of the month for me are the unplanned ones, when I allow my mind to wander. This usually happens after I’ve finally settled in the lounge chair I shlepped across the yard to the exact bit of sun or shade I’m craving, and brought out my water bottle, phone, book, sunscreen, and sunglasses in 3 different trips. I breathe in the air, feel really relaxed, look down at the book in my lap, and… daydream.

This is when I’m honest with myself about what would truly fill me with joy from the inside out. In the past those thoughts would be shortly followed with a reminder to keep myself comfortable in my status quo and not risk taking on something new. But this year, as opportunities have been presenting themselves, and I feel the familiar feeling of overwhelm descend upon me, I decide to challenge myself in a new way. I get control of the situation quickly by giving myself permission to follow the dream all the way to bliss. And only there. No other ruminations and outcomes are permitted. And it’s been great!

Opportunities have remained opportunities. I am feeling excited instead of nervous. My anticipation is quickly attracting additional opportunities for me, which fills me with joy. I’m playing a game with myself and I’m winning every time! I’ve started asking others what would their best case scenario be for their particular circumstance, and the conversations transform, becoming deeper and more forward thinking.

I’m that person who loves to share the product or experience that I’m enjoying with everyone. So I suggest you try asking yourself the same question. After all, what’s the best that can happen?